tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2701294853944479424.post7385051679129322202..comments2023-11-03T06:27:32.016-07:00Comments on The Baby Chase: Percocet and Xanaxthe Babychaser:http://www.blogger.com/profile/12205229469287159556noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2701294853944479424.post-70521357286983743832008-04-24T15:32:00.000-07:002008-04-24T15:32:00.000-07:00How did I not reply to this? I've read it like 10...How did I not reply to this? I've read it like 100 times...<BR/>I hope you're feeling OK, and I'm anxiously awaiting an update from you. Hang in there and take care of yourself.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03844806977351587056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2701294853944479424.post-47301663083557314522008-04-23T13:59:00.000-07:002008-04-23T13:59:00.000-07:00What a heartbreaking post -- yet I understanding s...What a heartbreaking post -- yet I understanding so many of these feelings. Reading about your husband's outpouring, I tried to imagine my own husband doing that. I've never seen him cry in 7 years. He's totally my solid, has-it-all-together rock, and he never seems affected by the failures/losses at all really. But I wonder if he's just "saving it all up" for one big freak out someday when it all truly hits him finally.<BR/><BR/>Hang in there! I'm right here with you.peesticksandstoneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13194814462876179308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2701294853944479424.post-58980161728524515372008-04-23T06:28:00.000-07:002008-04-23T06:28:00.000-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.On My Way to Fertilityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10546549819380569355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2701294853944479424.post-23119878641754694032008-04-23T06:27:00.000-07:002008-04-23T06:27:00.000-07:00I am sending you big prayers and hugs. Take a dee...I am sending you big prayers and hugs. Take a deep breath, drink some water, and think about your next steps.<BR/><BR/>I understand what you are going through and how you are feeling.<BR/>xoxoOn My Way to Fertilityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10546549819380569355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2701294853944479424.post-35534856731298465622008-04-22T04:11:00.000-07:002008-04-22T04:11:00.000-07:00So sorry about your news. It sucks. Thinking of ...So sorry about your news. It sucks. Thinking of you.Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04643481889216349403noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2701294853944479424.post-62245152549003354992008-04-21T16:26:00.000-07:002008-04-21T16:26:00.000-07:00Reading this post today totally broke my heart. I ...Reading this post today totally broke my heart. I just don't understand why people have to go through this - it's pretty much one of the most miserable things I have ever heard of. No one deserves this, no one. I am so sorry sweetie. I'll be thinking about you. ((huge hugs))MissNoAngel (find me on Twitter)https://www.blogger.com/profile/06159218057261109997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2701294853944479424.post-35779563346951437212008-04-21T06:02:00.000-07:002008-04-21T06:02:00.000-07:00I am so, so sorry, Babychaser. My thoughts are wit...I am so, so sorry, Babychaser. My thoughts are with you. Dot hit the nail on the head, methinks...Shinejilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03353174053245279899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2701294853944479424.post-6594532064306885492008-04-21T05:15:00.000-07:002008-04-21T05:15:00.000-07:00I'm so sorry. Both you and J sound close to break...I'm so sorry. Both you and J sound close to breaking point. I wish there were some words that might lessen the burden of all that you are feeling at the moment. <BR/><BR/>My heart goes out to you both.Ms Heathenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06404067891155971103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2701294853944479424.post-35486605621980494922008-04-20T17:47:00.000-07:002008-04-20T17:47:00.000-07:00I am so, so sorry about this. I don't know why th...I am so, so sorry about this. I don't know why the baby-making process is so unfair and capricious, but it is. I wish I had the words to express my sorrow for you and to mkae you feel better. But I don't. Words like that don't exist. Just know that you're in my thoughts and prayers.Alyssahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06996076537007147834noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2701294853944479424.post-82869181217075405112008-04-20T10:25:00.000-07:002008-04-20T10:25:00.000-07:00I am so sorry. Please take care of yourself. I c...I am so sorry. Please take care of yourself. I can imagine it was hard to see J break down like that, but it's good that you were both able to talk so openly. <BR/><BR/>The choice about possibly leaving him out of the equation (donor sperm) just sucks. It's so unfair when most people do this so f'n easily. I hope each day gets a little better. My heart hurts for you.Mallorynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11914993188185068883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2701294853944479424.post-81347942184801427372008-04-20T09:27:00.000-07:002008-04-20T09:27:00.000-07:00My heart is really hurting for you. I know that an...My heart is really hurting for you. I know that anger so well, and it is so hard to be with it, with the injustice of all you are having to face. It's just not fair. Not for you or for anyone to have to consider these things. I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers, wishing you some peace in the midst of everything. As hard as things are right now, you are very right to remember that it won't last forever, that things will change. So hang in there, and we're all here when you need us.annacyclopediahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10461037288546901657noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2701294853944479424.post-36525378504078980302008-04-20T00:56:00.000-07:002008-04-20T00:56:00.000-07:00Utterly heartbreaking.Utterly heartbreaking.Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11342071625881436631noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2701294853944479424.post-32973550438907446872008-04-19T23:37:00.000-07:002008-04-19T23:37:00.000-07:00so sorry about the negative. it really sucks. my...so sorry about the negative. it really sucks. my heart goes out to you and your hub. ~lunalunahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15455301696832647867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2701294853944479424.post-89037349897876221202008-04-19T21:50:00.000-07:002008-04-19T21:50:00.000-07:00Ah, yes. The Xan-ocet combo... I know it well. I...Ah, yes. The Xan-ocet combo... I know it well. I know how incredibly heartbreaking it is to watch your strong-never-cries man break down, but I think that even through the Perco-nax haze, you still sounded like you've got your head where it needs to be. You know that you will have a child at some point, whether it be genetically linked to both of you or not. <BR/><BR/>I'm so sorry that you've come to the critical financial juncture of your process. IF treatments should just be free. It's stressful enough trying to get your body to cooperate, and there's so much guessing and what-if-ing, that honestly, to add the stress of money into everything just sucks. <BR/><BR/>Ah, I'm just so sorry that you are suffering so much. FUCK IT. FUCK IT ALL.katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08056463808792013011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2701294853944479424.post-57035640471012389962008-04-19T19:32:00.000-07:002008-04-19T19:32:00.000-07:00I am being sad and angry and pissed and frustrated...I am being sad and angry and pissed and frustrated right along with you. And I am nodding emphatically at EVERY F'ING THING YOU ARE SAYING!<BR/><BR/>No matter how much it may hurt you, or The Hubby, I am very glad you two finally got to say those words to one another. I remember when I saw my husband cry about the pending loss of our baby (m/c #3) . . . it broke my heart, but it also snapped me into the reality that all of this affected HIM, too (and my Hubby has the sh*t sper, -- poor morphology). <BR/><BR/>I know all too well the self-isolation you speak of . . . we often MUST use those coping mechanisms to preserve what tiny shred of sanity we still have.<BR/><BR/>Dot is right -- take it day by day, indulging yourself however you need until you feel stronger.<BR/><BR/>And Sweetie, I am saying this with SO much love . . . PLEASE be careful with the x-p cocktail. That is NOT candy, as you know. I worry that taking too much at once, or mixing when you shouldn't, will lead you to do things you wouldn't normally. (Please don't think I am coming down on you, I know you are a smart, grown woman who has just gone through the friggin' wringer -- hell, I have self-medicated with wine on plenty of occasions).<BR/><BR/>Tons of luv and support being sent your way. Keep writing, okay?!Ms. Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04734867984972785143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2701294853944479424.post-46910412510002236322008-04-19T18:41:00.000-07:002008-04-19T18:41:00.000-07:00Oh my goodness. I haven't logged on in a while and...Oh my goodness. I haven't logged on in a while and just got your news. I am SO sorry. I know your heartbreak and I feel where you are - I was there just a few weeks ago. This is a lovely post and I'm sure that in the end, after the fog of x-p has lifted, it will have been therapeutic that he broke down and that you were able to talk things through together. My only advice is to take it day by day, treat yourself gingerly, and it WILL get better as time passes. Don't force any decisions on yourself, with time you will know what you need to do next.<BR/>You are in my thoughts and prayers.<BR/><BR/>-Dotbeautycouragehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12107228490033673469noreply@blogger.com